The UJ(G)entlemen’s Club is a wellness-driven initiative at the University of Johannesburg that seeks to challenge harmful stereotypes about masculinity. Rather than reinforcing outdated notions of how men should behave, the club provides a safe, inclusive space for young men to explore healthier, more constructive understandings of emotional expression, personal responsibility, and mental wellbeing.
On 9 May 2025, the club hosted its inaugural UJ(G)entlemen’s Wellness Seminar at the Doornfontein Campus’s John Orr Building—a bold step toward reshaping conversations around what it means to be a man in today’s world.
The seminar, which attracted a record 147 attendees, focused on dismantling the stigma surrounding men’s mental and emotional health—particularly the misguided belief that these issues are unimportant or a sign of weakness. Through a series of insightful talks, performances, and conversations, participants were invited to reflect on their roles in society and the ways in which internalised expectations can hinder their growth and wellbeing.
Speakers included Kabelo Mphai, DFC SRC Chairperson; Mr Maseko, a professional nurse from the Centre for Student Health and Wellness (CSHAW); Mr Derick Bvuma from Student Affairs; and Mrs Sinovuyo Arosi-Motse from PsyCaD, alongside UJ(G)entlemen’s Club members Kagiso Mofokeng, Mr Shamma Nzita, and Mr Blessing Bazungula.
Highlights and impact
One of the seminar’s most memorable moments came when Mrs Arosi-Motse delivered a heartfelt open letter to men, encouraging vulnerability and emotional honesty. Her message, paired with a stirring poem she performed, helped to create a nurturing atmosphere in which many attendees felt safe to reflect on their experiences and identities. Discussions went beyond mental health to include sexual health, the importance of testing, and understanding concepts like coercion and consent—topics often excluded from mainstream discussions targeted at men.
Mr Derick Bvuma spoke candidly about the issue of consent, particularly in situations involving alcohol, highlighting the importance of informed, mutual agreement in all relationships. Mr Maseko offered a clear and informative explanation of the HIV window period, which had a significant impact on attendees’ understanding of sexual health. For club member and event content creator Tumelo Mudau, this session stood out as a key learning moment, helping him and others realise how much more there is to know—and share—about men’s health.
Many attendees were moved by the seminar’s messages. Mr Asemahle, for instance, expressed how deeply Mrs Arosi-Motse’s letter resonated with him, and suggested that future gatherings adopt a more conversational format to allow for deeper engagement. Kagiso Mofokeng echoed this sentiment, noting how the poem, the consent discussion, and the information on HIV testing left a lasting impression. Like many others, he expressed interest in joining one of PsyCaD’s psychoeducational support groups, inspired by the sense of community and growth fostered by the UJ(G)entlemen’s Club.
Looking ahead
This first seminar marked a significant milestone for the club, affirming the urgent need for spaces where young men can speak openly, challenge toxic norms, and support one another in the pursuit of emotional wellbeing and moral growth. With PsyCaD’s continued support, the club hopes to evolve its programming into more interactive and discussion-based sessions that empower men to lead with empathy, awareness, and strength of character.
